If men are from Mars and women are from Venus, what planet is their relationship on?
John Gray's bestselling book used a planetary analogy to understand relationships. It proved very popular as a way of understanding and interpreting the behaviour patterns that men and women display.
Astrology also uses planets to understand and predict character traits and behaviour patterns. It is an extremely effective tool for analysing relationships. Venus and Mars are not the only planets looked at, although they are important. In total there are ten planets to consider and 12 different signs that each planet could be in. This gives a very high number of possible combinations, which can lead to an insightful and detailed analsis.
One of the reasons astrology is such a useful tool is its neutrality. By describing a relationship astrologically, a distance can be achieved. Difficulties then become a shared problem which could be resolved through co-operation. Identifying the problem as 'We have a Mars opposition' is a much more neutral way of saying 'We argue all the time' or even ' Why do you always argue with me?' What's more, astrology can even help to identify the timing of both good and difficult times. Knowing that things will get better can dissolve a lot of tension.
In any relationship there will be combinations of harmonious and challenging aspects, but there will often be a way of relating to each other that seems to work most of the time. It becomes a habitual way of interacting, the line of least resistance. Sometimes one particular planet provides a dominant theme for the relationship. In effect, it is the planet on which the relationship is based.
It could be the moon, signifying that emotional rapport and domestic compatability are the foundation on which it is based. Or it could be Mercury,indicating that both partners are on the same wavelength, can communicate well with each other and enjoy chatting or even writing to each other. Or perhaps it is the Sun, suggesting compatability at a deep level and that fundamental values and ways of approaching life are in harmony.
Only three examples have been given here, but there are lots more. It can get very complex, but the fundamental principles are simple and can be grasped by anybody sufficiently motivated to understand them.
If you want to understand the dynamic of a relationship, you should first try to understand each person as an individual. Astrology is a great way of doing this. It can help identify what matters most to you. If you are fundamentally an emotional person, emotional rapport will be the most important aspect of any relationship you have. A relationship that is great in lots of other ways, but does not meet this need, will ultimately be unfulfilling. Equally, you may tolerate all kinds of other difficulties if you are in a relationship where you feel a deep emotional connection. Discovering which planet you want the relationship to be on, is crucial. A great relationship on Venus may be fine for some people,but you might personally be happier with one based on the moon.
Astrology is a fascinating subject. After all, what could be more interesting than studying yourself, the person you love and the relationship that you have? It's worth investing some time to understand it yourself, rather than relying on other people's predictions and interpretations. It can be easy to place too much faith in an expert interpretation. There are some very experienced astrologers out there, but you are the most qualified person to understand yourself and your relationship. Astrology gives you the tools to do so in a neutral way, and it's also great fun. So, if you do feel inspired to look at it in more depth, be sure to enjoy yourself whatever planet you are on.
Elizabeth White has been practising astrology for over 15 years and is the author of an introductory astrology course.
http://www.horoscope-master.com
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Friday, May 29, 2009
Thursday, June 12, 2008
How to Improve Your Romance Luck Using Your Cell Phone
The cell phone has become a daily necessity for everyone of us,since the beginning of the millennium.But very few people know that the cell phone can be used to create romance luck.
Now,I know what you are thinking.You are probably expecting me to tell you to call up the chat lines and try to get a date.Or you might be expecting me to tell you to go out and exchange phone numbers with more people.Well,these are logical things to do.But there is an easier way out.Something that you will be doing every 2 to 3 days,depending on how much you use your cell phone.
Yes,you probably already guessed it.That's right.Charging your cell phone.
So how can charging your cell phone increase your romance luck?Let me explain to you...
The cell phone and the cell phone charger are Fire objects.If you have read my newsletter and articles,you probably know that the Romance Flying Star,the 9 Purple Star also represents Fire.If you want to activate the 9 Purple Romance Flying Star,you need to use Fire.
Now,the next thing is how do you know where is the position of the 9 Purple Romance Flying Star?
It is time for me to help you out now.The position of the 9 Purple Romance Flying Star changes every month.Last month,Fire Snake month (5th May to 5th June),it was at South sector.If you charged your cell phone at the South sector of your house last month,you will have activated the 9 Purple Romance Flying Star.
This month,the position of the 9 Purple Romance Flying Star is at the North sector.You might want to move the charger to the North sector of your home.
If you have problems trying to figure out the sectors in your home,I suggest you refer to "The Secret Handbook Of Creating Your Own Good Luck".You can download it for free at my feng shui website.
Yes,it is as easy as that.Just charge your cell phone at the position of the 9 Purple Flying Star.That will help you improve your romance luck.
Before I end,let me also share with you some feng shui problems caused by the cell phone charger.You see,many people like to charge their cell phone by their bed side.It is not very good to charge your cell phone at your bed side,especially when you are sleeping.The radiation from the cell phone will affect your brain when you are sleeping.
This also poses a problem to the people born in Summer(6th May to 7th August).If you are born in Summer,Fire is very unfavorable to you.When you charge your cell phone at your bed side while sleeping,you are in essence sleeping with Fire.This will greatly affect your luck cycle.You may find that things are not very smooth for you.
During this Summer period (May,June and July),it is worse for you to do that.
But even if Fire is favorable to you (i.e. you are born in Winter or Autumn),I would still advise against charging your cell phone at your bed side while you sleep.The radiation from the cell phone is harmful to your brain.
I hope that from today onwards,your romance luck will improve,since you already know how to maximise it.
About the Author
Marco Chong is an expert in Feng Shui, Chinese Astrology and Indian Numerology. He specializes in using the different types of astrology to analyze love compatibility.His recent project aims to help individuals who are seeking romance create their own romance luck.
Visit his website at http://www.createyourownromanceluck.com
Now,I know what you are thinking.You are probably expecting me to tell you to call up the chat lines and try to get a date.Or you might be expecting me to tell you to go out and exchange phone numbers with more people.Well,these are logical things to do.But there is an easier way out.Something that you will be doing every 2 to 3 days,depending on how much you use your cell phone.
Yes,you probably already guessed it.That's right.Charging your cell phone.
So how can charging your cell phone increase your romance luck?Let me explain to you...
The cell phone and the cell phone charger are Fire objects.If you have read my newsletter and articles,you probably know that the Romance Flying Star,the 9 Purple Star also represents Fire.If you want to activate the 9 Purple Romance Flying Star,you need to use Fire.
Now,the next thing is how do you know where is the position of the 9 Purple Romance Flying Star?
It is time for me to help you out now.The position of the 9 Purple Romance Flying Star changes every month.Last month,Fire Snake month (5th May to 5th June),it was at South sector.If you charged your cell phone at the South sector of your house last month,you will have activated the 9 Purple Romance Flying Star.
This month,the position of the 9 Purple Romance Flying Star is at the North sector.You might want to move the charger to the North sector of your home.
If you have problems trying to figure out the sectors in your home,I suggest you refer to "The Secret Handbook Of Creating Your Own Good Luck".You can download it for free at my feng shui website.
Yes,it is as easy as that.Just charge your cell phone at the position of the 9 Purple Flying Star.That will help you improve your romance luck.
Before I end,let me also share with you some feng shui problems caused by the cell phone charger.You see,many people like to charge their cell phone by their bed side.It is not very good to charge your cell phone at your bed side,especially when you are sleeping.The radiation from the cell phone will affect your brain when you are sleeping.
This also poses a problem to the people born in Summer(6th May to 7th August).If you are born in Summer,Fire is very unfavorable to you.When you charge your cell phone at your bed side while sleeping,you are in essence sleeping with Fire.This will greatly affect your luck cycle.You may find that things are not very smooth for you.
During this Summer period (May,June and July),it is worse for you to do that.
But even if Fire is favorable to you (i.e. you are born in Winter or Autumn),I would still advise against charging your cell phone at your bed side while you sleep.The radiation from the cell phone is harmful to your brain.
I hope that from today onwards,your romance luck will improve,since you already know how to maximise it.
About the Author
Marco Chong is an expert in Feng Shui, Chinese Astrology and Indian Numerology. He specializes in using the different types of astrology to analyze love compatibility.His recent project aims to help individuals who are seeking romance create their own romance luck.
Visit his website at http://www.createyourownromanceluck.com
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Long Distance Christmas Relationships
http://www. Heart-of-Mine.com
This Christmas, if you find that you are separated from the one you love it does not mean that you have to be lonely and sad over the holidays. There are plenty of ways to keep the romance high in a long distance love affair. If you are not normally separated and your lover is leaving on a business trip you have a chance to add some special presents to their going away bag.
Send your woman or man away with some toys that you can surprise them with. You might send a female with a vibrator or a clitoral massager. A man might end up finding a love doll or a masturbator. You could even add some racy photographs of yourself to show them what they will be missing while they are gone this holiday. If they will be gone on Christmas as well, you should add in a small present that they can open on Christmas.
You have a number of options for communication when it comes to long distance love. Email and telephone time are the two most common methods of communication. Of course, with the computer being so popular these days you can toy with the idea of using an Internet (web) cam for some added fun. Consider the following options as a way to feel a lot closer than you may be this Christmas.
Telephone Time
Set some time apart from your day when you can be alone together. During the first phone call you can reveal the special present you left for your lover if they have not found it already. If it's late you might find yourself thinking about the moments you will be spending together soon and might find your lover using those toys for you or with you, while you use your own. This may not be the same as the real thing but it is certainly interesting enough to tide you over until you can be together and make love again.
Another nice idea is to send your lover some romantic voicemail messages if you know they are going to be the only ones to hear them. You might go traditional and talk about your feelings or you might want to get racier and tell them how much you really do miss them this Christmas.
Email
If you find yourself at the office or with a few minutes to spare and you know your lover has an Internet connection then you should send along an email. You could send a standard love note. You might also want to tell them what you are wearing, what you wish they were doing with you right that second, or how much you want to make love to them when they get home.
Your lover will be thrilled to see your email, especially if it gives them something to think about while you are apart. Chances are they will respond with a declaration all their own and soon you will be having a sexy email romance throughout the holiday until your lover comes home to you.
Web Cam
A person with practically no computer knowledge can set up a web cam. With that in mind, why not give your lover a special treat this Christmas while you are separated? Even if they do not have a web cam, as long as they have an Internet connection and an instant messenger program they will be able to see you. Imagine their excitement when they see a sexy strip tease and a one woman or man lovemaking show just for them!
About the Author:
Shayla Moore is a writer for http://www.oasislingerie.com She has many intresting topics and ideas for all to read about.
http://www. Heart-of-Mine.com
This Christmas, if you find that you are separated from the one you love it does not mean that you have to be lonely and sad over the holidays. There are plenty of ways to keep the romance high in a long distance love affair. If you are not normally separated and your lover is leaving on a business trip you have a chance to add some special presents to their going away bag.
Send your woman or man away with some toys that you can surprise them with. You might send a female with a vibrator or a clitoral massager. A man might end up finding a love doll or a masturbator. You could even add some racy photographs of yourself to show them what they will be missing while they are gone this holiday. If they will be gone on Christmas as well, you should add in a small present that they can open on Christmas.
You have a number of options for communication when it comes to long distance love. Email and telephone time are the two most common methods of communication. Of course, with the computer being so popular these days you can toy with the idea of using an Internet (web) cam for some added fun. Consider the following options as a way to feel a lot closer than you may be this Christmas.
Telephone Time
Set some time apart from your day when you can be alone together. During the first phone call you can reveal the special present you left for your lover if they have not found it already. If it's late you might find yourself thinking about the moments you will be spending together soon and might find your lover using those toys for you or with you, while you use your own. This may not be the same as the real thing but it is certainly interesting enough to tide you over until you can be together and make love again.
Another nice idea is to send your lover some romantic voicemail messages if you know they are going to be the only ones to hear them. You might go traditional and talk about your feelings or you might want to get racier and tell them how much you really do miss them this Christmas.
If you find yourself at the office or with a few minutes to spare and you know your lover has an Internet connection then you should send along an email. You could send a standard love note. You might also want to tell them what you are wearing, what you wish they were doing with you right that second, or how much you want to make love to them when they get home.
Your lover will be thrilled to see your email, especially if it gives them something to think about while you are apart. Chances are they will respond with a declaration all their own and soon you will be having a sexy email romance throughout the holiday until your lover comes home to you.
Web Cam
A person with practically no computer knowledge can set up a web cam. With that in mind, why not give your lover a special treat this Christmas while you are separated? Even if they do not have a web cam, as long as they have an Internet connection and an instant messenger program they will be able to see you. Imagine their excitement when they see a sexy strip tease and a one woman or man lovemaking show just for them!
About the Author:
Shayla Moore is a writer for http://www.oasislingerie.com She has many intresting topics and ideas for all to read about.
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